Getting over losing a friend

Gerardthedevil · Posted: Sat Sep 18, 2010 4:42 am Post subject: Getting over losing a friend

So yesterday I just stopped being friends with this girl. (Its not the other girl I was talking about)

She kept lying to me. Like whenever I said if she wanted to hang out shed tell me she was grounded. Oh she can't she has tennis practice, (at 9 P.M at night)

She just kept lying, then I saw that instead of hanging out with me she would just go hang with her friends. So I just decided to let her go without a word. But it still hurts. She was really nice to me before and we would hang out a lot before this. And I always helped her out with like EVERYTHING. But whatever, I let her go. But its hard to get over losing a friend when I think how good things were before.
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blackcatcurse · Posted: Sat Sep 18, 2010 6:14 am Post subject:

*hug*

She doesn't deserve a nice friend like you.
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luckylace222 · Posted: Sat Sep 18, 2010 9:15 am Post subject:

;] *tickles you* It is alright.

I am sure you are still sticking to a part of her mind. If you are really curious about her change of heart, talk to her about it on email or phone.

Sometimes when people go through a life-changing experience or even trauma, they try to change something about them and put new experiences in to keep themselves from reverting back to the past. I cannot say that is her perfect case though!!!
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SonicnTails · Very bored Joined: 03 Feb 2010 Posts: 251

Holding onto such thoughts dont make anything better. Just block the thoughts and move on to better things.
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SmilePrettyVanity · Still very bored Joined: 19 Jul 2010 Posts: 271

Someone who lies all the time isn't worth yours. -Hugs- I'm sorry, losing a friend is tough, but ... But if she's going to lie, then she doesn't deserve you.
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Gerardthedevil · Posted: Wed Sep 22, 2010 3:24 am Post subject:

Thanks everyone for the advice. =)
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