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Battou Photo Lucidity Admin
Joined: 20 Jul 2006 Posts: 3165 Location: Slapamonkey, NY
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Posted: Sat Oct 15, 2011 8:03 am Post subject: I have some bad news |
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My wife went in to the hospital on Sunday night learn she was in pre-term labor. By the time the ER staff realized what was going on it was too late to stop the contractions. At 5:20 am Monday morning my wife gave birth to to our son Nathanial Edward. At only 22 weeks gestation his development was not enough to survive premature birth, his lungs and airways simply where not developed enough and could not process air. I lost my first born son on Monday morning. _________________ [b]RPG[/b]-[i]n[/i]. A computer programing language designed for business reporting that generates specific programs from the users specifications.([b]R[/b]eport [b]P[/b]rogram [b]G[/b]enerator)[i]The American Heritage Dictionary[/i]
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SweetxinsanityxSarah Elder Than Dirt
Joined: 01 Jan 2007 Posts: 6829 Location: 20th Ward
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Posted: Sat Oct 15, 2011 8:34 am Post subject: |
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EDIT: Ooooh geez sorreh! My damn comp at the library crapped out on me before I saw what all was written.
I am very sorreh for your loss Battou. He shall be loved and remembered....
u-u
(Again, dropkick the crappy comps at the library, not me. Xx
But then again they should expect comp freak outs with outdated firefox browsers bah. Things go wonkey when you multi-task!) _________________ Our life is made by the death of others...
~Leonardo Da Vinci |
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luckylace222 Site Helper
Joined: 05 May 2007 Posts: 1545 Location: Baby Fishy
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Posted: Sat Oct 15, 2011 6:38 pm Post subject: |
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This explains your absence.
How are you dealing with this Battou? Premature death for a newborn is traumatic, but it happens in 12% of all American pregnancies, so you are not alone.
Just know that we are all here for you, and even if we can be a crude group sometimes, we will support you through these difficulties.
Is the lady doing okay? _________________ [size=10]“Far better is it to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checked by failure...than to rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy much nor suffer much, because they live in a gray twilight that knows not victory nor defeat.” ~Theodore Roosevelt [/size] |
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SweetxinsanityxSarah Elder Than Dirt
Joined: 01 Jan 2007 Posts: 6829 Location: 20th Ward
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Posted: Sat Oct 15, 2011 9:56 pm Post subject: |
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Yush I hope she is doing okies, considering this thing usually has a heavy effect on the women. I hope she isnt in any pain either, please let her know we are praying for ya both. _________________ Our life is made by the death of others...
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Stratadrake Elder Than Dirt
Joined: 05 May 2004 Posts: 13710 Location: Moo
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Posted: Sun Oct 16, 2011 8:43 am Post subject: |
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I have two siblings, one a year or so older and one five years younger. Mom says the reason for this gap was because between me and my younger sister she had two stillborn. _________________ Strata here: [url=http://www.nanowrimo.org/eng/user/242293]Nanowrimo[/url] - [url=www.fanart-central.net/user-Stratadrake.php]FAC[/url] - [url=http://stratadrake.deviantart.com]dA[/url] - [url=www.furaffinity.net/user/Stratadrake/]FA[/url]
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ThaKakarot Oldbie
Joined: 18 Mar 2005 Posts: 2246
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Posted: Sun Oct 30, 2011 6:10 am Post subject: |
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My condolences,
I can't imagine how much this must hurt, I know from your past posts that you were very exited.
Be there for your girl, when my aunt lost her twins with premature birth it almost destroyed her.
I wish you all the best man. |
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Hawk4444 Very Oldbie
Joined: 17 Feb 2005 Posts: 2568 Location: Somewhere in the middle of nowwhere in Arizona.
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Posted: Mon Oct 31, 2011 12:35 am Post subject: |
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oh battou no.
i know its been a while but there are no words. i hope you and your wife are well. _________________ I'm a bit silly on the goofy side on nonsense. ^_^ |
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Powtaz Oldbie
Joined: 31 Dec 1969 Posts: 2132
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Posted: Wed Dec 21, 2011 10:19 am Post subject: |
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I express my condolances to you and your family. This must be a hard time for you, but realize that your wife has survived the ordeal and hopefully this can help you move forward in life. |
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layzcarter I used to work here
Joined: 31 Dec 1969 Posts: 3988
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honestly... very awful and i'm sorry. could not imagine such a thing and nor do I want to. _________________ [img]http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v213/gellypen/spearslut.png[/img] |
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