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Battou
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PostPosted: Sat Oct 15, 2011 8:03 am    Post subject: I have some bad news Reply with quote

My wife went in to the hospital on Sunday night learn she was in pre-term labor. By the time the ER staff realized what was going on it was too late to stop the contractions. At 5:20 am Monday morning my wife gave birth to to our son Nathanial Edward. At only 22 weeks gestation his development was not enough to survive premature birth, his lungs and airways simply where not developed enough and could not process air. I lost my first born son on Monday morning.
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SweetxinsanityxSarah
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PostPosted: Sat Oct 15, 2011 8:34 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

EDIT: Ooooh geez sorreh! My damn comp at the library crapped out on me before I saw what all was written.

I am very sorreh for your loss Battou. He shall be loved and remembered....

u-u

(Again, dropkick the crappy comps at the library, not me. Xx
But then again they should expect comp freak outs with outdated firefox browsers bah. Things go wonkey when you multi-task!)
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luckylace222
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PostPosted: Sat Oct 15, 2011 6:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Crying or Very sad This explains your absence.

How are you dealing with this Battou? Premature death for a newborn is traumatic, but it happens in 12% of all American pregnancies, so you are not alone.

Just know that we are all here for you, and even if we can be a crude group sometimes, we will support you through these difficulties.

Is the lady doing okay?
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SweetxinsanityxSarah
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PostPosted: Sat Oct 15, 2011 9:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yush I hope she is doing okies, considering this thing usually has a heavy effect on the women. I hope she isnt in any pain either, please let her know we are praying for ya both.
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PostPosted: Sun Oct 16, 2011 8:43 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have two siblings, one a year or so older and one five years younger. Mom says the reason for this gap was because between me and my younger sister she had two stillborn.
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ThaKakarot
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PostPosted: Sun Oct 30, 2011 6:10 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

My condolences,
I can't imagine how much this must hurt, I know from your past posts that you were very exited.

Be there for your girl, when my aunt lost her twins with premature birth it almost destroyed her.

I wish you all the best man.
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PostPosted: Mon Oct 31, 2011 12:35 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

oh battou no.

i know its been a while but there are no words. i hope you and your wife are well.
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Powtaz
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PostPosted: Wed Dec 21, 2011 10:19 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I express my condolances to you and your family. This must be a hard time for you, but realize that your wife has survived the ordeal and hopefully this can help you move forward in life.
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PostPosted: Thu Jan 05, 2012 8:05 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

honestly... very awful and i'm sorry. could not imagine such a thing and nor do I want to.
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