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Raccoonlady
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PostPosted: Wed Nov 28, 2012 2:53 pm    Post subject: annoying men, why do they do this??? Reply with quote

I bet years from now I'm going to look back on this thread and say
"Wow I'm an idiot for letting this hurt me"
But...
I had a crush on this guy and I'm totally turned off now.
He likes someone else and he's waiting for her
But at the same time he's been messing around with me asking if I want to kiss and hug and he's very intimate.
But what's the point of being intimate if you're just friends?
I'm so confused, he blatantly stated that he just wants to be friends.
So why would he do all this? Does he just want sex? Because I'm definitely not giving that up to someone who doesn't care for me in that way.

In some ways I'm glad my dream didn't come true because if I did decide to be in a relationship with him, I'd be hurt to know he was messing around with another girl.
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Ragdoll
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PostPosted: Thu Nov 29, 2012 2:30 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Not all guys are like that, from the sounds of it, he's more interested in the title: 'Friends with Benefits'.

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I hate that term, but everyone has a preference. I can't say he's polygamous because he would be in a relationship with several women---. But in this case, he definitely prefers being friends with benefits with you.

=/

If he doesn't knock it off, unless you're interested in that sort of thing, then I'd whack him in the face.

Buuuuut. That's just me. <3
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PostPosted: Thu Nov 29, 2012 11:07 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I agree with ragdoll on this one. Friends with benefits is frowned upon greatly by me. Seriously, get a toy if you are that eager boy. Dx
I'm sure your gal will feel better with you being with a blow up doll rather than risk inpregnating another woman.

And my advice to racoon? Stay far away from this fella, he's just going to get you into hot water with his gal if he cant keep his hands off ya.
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PostPosted: Fri Nov 30, 2012 7:19 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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I'm sure your gal will feel better with you being with a blow up doll rather than risk inpregnating another woman.

;__; -But you cannot impregnate a blowup doll. What is the fun in that?

They should make blowup dolls that have optional pregnancy bellies. That would make the man think twice about how to treat his blowup doll. LOL
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PostPosted: Fri Nov 30, 2012 10:26 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

lmao oh mai Lucky what will you think of next? xDDDD
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PostPosted: Fri Nov 30, 2012 11:01 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I dumped him.
He's not even cute, he's an ugly dork. How does he get all these women?
I guess he says the right thing at the right time.
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PostPosted: Fri Nov 30, 2012 11:07 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Or bribery, I mean that helps too. Look at all these rich fellas with babes and they're uglier then Mock Turtle. xP
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PostPosted: Sat Dec 01, 2012 9:04 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Raccoonlady wrote:
I dumped him.
He's not even cute, he's an ugly dork. How does he get all these women?
I guess he says the right thing at the right time.

Just to put it out there, confidence can make an average man/woman look substantially attractive.
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PostPosted: Wed Dec 12, 2012 3:13 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

sometimes. But I also knew a player who hated himself and was rude to others, called everyone a whore or the b word.

I really feel like sometimes it's confidence and other times it's the right thing said to make a girl with low self esteem feel better.
Nasty mix.
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PostPosted: Thu Dec 13, 2012 1:46 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Let's just say that people are strange and weird and walking contradictions sometimes and leave it at that. xDD
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