How do we report an FAC member??(More details inside!)

Dark_Angel_Of_Light

Hi... Again... Okay, the deal is, I want to say something to a mod or someone with a higher power than I have on this site about a member who is... How do I put this??... Here:

He is getting mad(More like POed) at me because someone else asked if I wanted to be friends, and I said no. I added no swear words, I didn't say I hated them, I just said no thank you, I don't really want to be friends...

I deleted his comments off my profile, due to some swearing(If I remember right) and insults. I can see where others may possibly do that too. Nobody wants insults and swear words on their profile.

A few people did this recently, like the past week or so, and the first one I said no thanks, and kinda left. Then the second one asked, I replied no again, and then the other guy came asking me why I had to be so cruel and mean and told the second person that she didn't need friends like me...

I do not know if this is the wrong forum or not, or if I need to PM a certain person or not, but help would be very, very much appreciated. Thanks again!

DAOL

ItachisBaby · Newb Joined: 13 Aug 2006 Posts: 23

I know ho you are talking about me and my friends look that really isnt a reason to bann anyone if im correct plus it doesnt really matter just ignore my friends or whatever please and dont bann them no reason to do so
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Stratadrake · Posted: Sat Sep 30, 2006 6:54 pm Post subject:

Even so (and btw, admins can see those comments you guys deleted Wink

), ItachisBaby and fullNarutoZ, if you ask a straight question and get a straight answer, why are you complaining?

Friendship is not something that everyone can just say "okay, let's do it". Some people have stricter definitions of a 'friend' than others, so if you ask and they say 'no', DON'T TAKE OFFENSE.

Remember, just because someone is [i]not[/i] a friend does [b]not[/b] automatically mean they are an enemy.

So, stop being so bipolar and quit harassing Dark_Angel_of_Light over a simple answer.
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ItachisBaby · Newb Joined: 13 Aug 2006 Posts: 23

what the heck!!! I didnt do anything i left her alone right after i said you were being mean so i left her alone because i knew why she didnt want to be my frined soo my friend got a warning for this. Nevermind then nevermind.craap... Evil or Very Mad

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Stratadrake · Posted: Sat Sep 30, 2006 10:08 pm Post subject:

Your friend sent me a PM and I responded. I still haven't put all the pieces together, but from what I can see right now it looks like you asked a rather superficial question, received an answer you didn't like, then called in a friend to help you, who started throwing "jerk face" level insults.

ItachisBaby, if there is any real "problem" here, it is this comment by you:

[quote="ItachisBaby"]Hey im just a rando person going around randomizing people and want to be friends?[/quote]

If you are just going around asking a question you have to expect that some people will say no. People have differing standards for who they call "friend"; in most cases [b]it takes time[/b] to develop a level of communication between you and them before you can consider them a real friend. Where this is the case, you can't just walk up to someone and ask them to "be" friends.

I know that if someone walked up to me out of the blue and asked to be friends, I wouldn't be able to say yes, [i]simply because I don't know them[/i], they don't meet my definition for who I call friend.

This is the same reason Dark_Angel gave you. You shouldnt jump to such far-reaching conclusions.
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ItachisBaby · Newb Joined: 13 Aug 2006 Posts: 23

WHAT!! I didnt call in my friend he just commented to her for no reason i didnt do anything sooooo what.He just came in and said sher was a jerkey face i had nothing to do with it I know this isnt a big deal but im trying to get my point acrossed.
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sakelee · Newb Joined: 11 Sep 2006 Posts: 12

its a moot point. arguing isnt going to solve this so plz just drop it. its ok if someone doesnt want to be friends. period. lets all just move on please...

ItachisBaby · Newb Joined: 13 Aug 2006 Posts: 23

I'm fine now doesnt matter anymore i get it stupid point to get mad
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