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Gerardthedevil
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PostPosted: Tue Jul 19, 2011 6:17 pm    Post subject: Is anyone here good with advice that I could talk to Reply with quote

When I was 16 and I started hanging out with this 18 year old guy. We used to get into arguments all the time and then he'd call me psychotic. I displayed no signs of being psychotic. He never wanted to date me, complained that I was boring, and only wanted to talk to me if it was about sex. He'd call me a b itch and a c*nt all the time and threaten me that if I was a guy he'd beat me up and that he stabbed his friend 99 times so I better watch out. I'm so upset from this relationship. He also was dating a woman and wouldn't allow me to have crushes on other men, but he was seeing tons of other women. Its upsetting because I was always nice to him yet he treated me badly. I don't know why I'm obessing over something that happened 3 years ago but I can't talk to my family about it.
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PostPosted: Tue Jul 19, 2011 7:46 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

IGNORE AND FORGET JERK P;

How you do it depends on you. Make a picture that symbolizes you getting over him.
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PostPosted: Tue Jul 19, 2011 8:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yeah I don't know why I'm obsessing over it, it happened three years ago.
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 20, 2011 6:23 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Honey, I almost ran into the same situation you did. There was this town ho named Joe M. something that covourted himself around town and claimed he could win me over. When I talked about something else, he would just try to steer the topic towards sex. I didnt want him as a lover since my heart belongs to Steve and always will though he's miles away I dont give a flying F*ck. I told him I just wanted to be friends, not FWB's, just friends. Then I learned about his issues and temper with other women....and the fact he exposed himself to lil boys near the riverside.
Oh and when he knocked on my door at 2 am...yeah that wasent happening.

Thank god he got caught violating his parolle otherwise I'd probly have clocked him for putting on such a damn act and acting like he could win me over.

Just trust me on this hun...control freaks are not fun to be with, I used to talk to one a long time ago before I ran into that Joe freak...they can be exhausting and wound you both in the heart and soul and even pysically, I should know, my sister is with one too.

Also, read the book Acheron by Sherrilyn Kenyon; that fella feels the same as you do when it comes to him and Artemis, trust me a good read that will sympathize with your situation.
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 20, 2011 7:15 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sarah, did you live in a small town? ;u
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 20, 2011 7:33 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yeah it's a small town, still is in my opinion and im not very proud of it. xP

Bright side is; we have a dancing hobo. =D
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 20, 2011 9:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Quote:
a dancing hobo. =D

I know this is getting off topic, but YEAH! 8D


Just to stay back on topic Gerardthedevil, your bud there ironically sounds like a psychotic.
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 20, 2011 11:29 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thanks for your replies!

I just can't seem to get over this. I started thinking about it the day before my graduation. No matter how much I tell myself he's garbage I tend to put myself down from thinking about all the things he told me.
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 20, 2011 1:33 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Eat chocolate with strawberries! P; That'll do it! You have to do something right? You constantly ponder over it right? Do something to take your mind off of it. What we do not need is a mind that stays in the past instead of concentrates on the present that is going by right in front of their eyes.

Do a new hobby. Go to the beach. GO out with GOOD friends(those you feel comfortable with). Juggle oranges and apples while playing the Wii with your toes. Then, sigh and tell yourself, "I'll take me a bit to get over it, but at least I am taking the first step."

Yah?
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 20, 2011 1:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yah! Thanks
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