How Do I Tell My Best Friend...

kenshinswife · Very bored Joined: 04 Aug 2004 Posts: 144

See I have a crush on my best friend that I've known for 11 years. We both are girls tho...I am 90 percent positive that she is straight...how can I tell her? I don't want to ruin our friendship with her not feeling comfortable around me...help plz..i need advice :wacko: Sad

kenshinswife · Very bored Joined: 04 Aug 2004 Posts: 144

plz? anybody?

Bahl_Rohg · Still very bored Joined: 27 Jun 2004 Posts: 282

dude, dont go to us for help, decide youurself, you need to make that desision on your own.

amerowolf · Posted: Sun Aug 29, 2004 4:25 pm Post subject:

uhhh now see if this friend were a guy. i could give you some advice cuz well i have had the same problem. but well since it's not....

first of all does she know your gay?
if she does then it should go down alot smoother

kenshinswife · Very bored Joined: 04 Aug 2004 Posts: 144

well if I made a decisoin I wouldn't be here....thx i guess

ragingflea002 · Posted: Sun Aug 29, 2004 4:31 pm Post subject:

You know, the deal with this is, just do it the way they do it in the movies. French her, and french her good. She'll get it. Hell, if she keeps it going for more than 5 seconds, that means she likes it. Tell her how you feel and explain the entire thing through. If she doesn't get it immediately, don't flip out. She'll have to think about it for a little while. I mean, think about it. Would you automatically accept it if you were in her shoes?

Oh, and you should probably explain that you're bi, and not a full on lesbian. That way, you can still discuss boys the same way, as most girls do.

Now, dammit, I need a girlfriend. I'm the only dude in the whole fuckin' school without one.

And she better like Motley Crue.
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HeavenlyKunoichi · Very bored Joined: 31 Dec 1969 Posts: 182

Just tell her everything you feel in your mind, let her feel your mind every single thing you are thinking tell her. Then see how things go from there

kenshinswife · Very bored Joined: 04 Aug 2004 Posts: 144

nope she doesn't know..i guess I should tel her..thanx

kenshinswife · Very bored Joined: 04 Aug 2004 Posts: 144

thank you so much for the advice...

."ragingflea002...Now, dammit, I need a girlfriend. I'm the only dude in the whole fuckin' school without one."

lol

n8comics · Has No Life Joined: 05 May 2004 Posts: 582

[quote]How Do I Tell My Best Friend..., that I'm bi?[/quote]
Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha! That's great Laughing

I would suggest baking her a cupcake or cake with icing that says "I'm Gay." She'll get the message, and a nice little snack to boot! Hell, I don't for being gay, I'd be attracted to all the hot chicks too if I was a woman. Hell, dick or not, I'd like to get into their pants :)

One piece of critisisim I have however... Why is your name "Kenshin's Wife" if you're a lesbian? I mean, is it a cover up or are you just seeking for attention Smile

Riddle me that!

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fallenangel · Posted: Sun Aug 29, 2004 5:21 pm Post subject:

She's BI. Fuckin' dumbass... Rolling eyes

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majohime · Very bored Joined: 23 Aug 2004 Posts: 240

bi...as in having sexual attraction to both genders: female and male

ragingflea002 · Posted: Sun Aug 29, 2004 5:25 pm Post subject:

Yeah, she can get both worlds that way.

But I shall stick to my preference. Women.

Women who like the good rock and not the bad s**t.

Women like Fallen, who live closeby and are my age.

There ain't enough of them.
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n8comics · Has No Life Joined: 05 May 2004 Posts: 582

[quote="fallenangel (fallen)"] She's BI. Fuckin' dumbass... Rolling eyes

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Ooooooooooh... So she's a noob...

I wonder if the men in pornos are bisexual too. Because like, there's always two of them f**king some woman. Since the guys are comfortable with their penises splashing around and slapping one another, I'm pretty sure they're bi.

Or maybe I'm just watching the wrong porn.

majohime · Very bored Joined: 23 Aug 2004 Posts: 240

.....eeeerm.....i wouldn't know that.......>.>

Papercut_Dragon · Posted: Sun Aug 29, 2004 7:14 pm Post subject:

So... have you told her yet? I wanna know how this thing turns out Razz

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LadyoftheDeadlyDance · Forum Stalker Joined: 13 May 2004 Posts: 1144

[quote]Or maybe I'm just watching the wrong porn.[/quote]

O_O

Just maybe, man...

Are you absolutly sure you're BI? Because if you are, and you have a crush on your friend, it's best to tell her. Maybe the cupcake would work, I dunno, I've never been in your situation.

[quote]So... have you told her yet? I wanna know how this thing turns out [/quote]

Me too ^_^

amerowolf · Posted: Sun Aug 29, 2004 9:37 pm Post subject:

the cupcake thing would be freaking hilarious. i mean if someone gave me a cupcake that said i'm gay on it......uh just nevermind me.

anyway i too am curious to know how this turns out

plungergirl · Still very bored Joined: 31 Dec 1969 Posts: 294

[quote] the cupcake thing would be freaking hilarious. i mean if someone gave me a cupcake that said i'm gay on it......uh just nevermind me. [/quote]

Hmm... I'd think I got a gay cupcake... and then I'd wonder if it was a male or female cupcake, and if it was going to hit on my heterosexual cupcake... I'll have to keep my cupcake safe from those homosexual cupcakes... unless, I have a cupcake that's "in the closet" and is afraid to come out... wait, I think my cupcake is in my closet right now... :huh:

So anyway, don't mind my ramblings...

[quote]Or maybe I'm just watching the wrong porn.[/quote]

You sure are!! I never thought of it that way before...

however, I don't spend a lot of my time contemplating porn... WTF?

amerowolf · Posted: Sun Aug 29, 2004 9:50 pm Post subject:

jeez who doesn't contemplate porn...