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Dogss Would like fries with that

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Posted: Thu Feb 10, 2005 4:55 pm Post subject: |
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[quote]I've no proof that she is anything but an "internet bully."[/quote]
Silver's quite nice when the Newbies stay away. [i]Some[/i] Mods tend to attack newbies who are simply being themselves, often crazy, but at least following the rules.
It's a pity, but I tend to stay away from threads they post in. I'm afraid to be myself around them. Until now...
I'm not saying Silver's a bully, but she often lacks understanding. Silver should work to correct poeple rather than attacking them. I'll bet newbie's get terrible confused and hurt when she does. _________________ Mohawks are beautiful sculptures |
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Fayore Moderator

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Posted: Thu Feb 10, 2005 4:57 pm Post subject: |
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[quote]I've no proof that she is anything but an "internet bully."[/quote]
Obviously, you haven't been around these forums much if, out of all her 6000 posts, you've only seen ones where she's chewing on an idiot.
Anyway.
While that might be true for you, it doesn't mean she's like that. Indeed, I made a mistake (which is actually explainable, btw, but it doesn't matter anymore) the first time I posted here, and she just told me not to do it again.
Perfectly civil about it, and I just followed what she said. We're on good terms (then again, I'm pretty much on good [if nonexistant] terms with everyone. o.o; ) now.
There's nothing wrong until the person in the wrong decides to argue back. :/
Also, just because one person is "hostile" to you doesn't mean you have to be hostile back to them. If someone starts yelling at me, I don't yell back. It's immature to complain about such petty things all the time.
And yeah, Genkai is right, and so is Silver. Now that she has the reputation for "bashing n00bs", it doesn't seem like the newer people can get past that, although it's not even true, for the most part.
(on topic: I love school. In fact, I don't ever want it to end. I get to meet and interact with people I would have never met otherwise there, and also... I don't want to grow up. Going to uni and getting a job is too much for me. :/ ) _________________ [url=http://vdexproject.net/user.php?user=15636][img]http://vdexproject.net/p/15636/trainer.png[/img]
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Elbreth Still very bored

Joined: 31 Jan 2005 Posts: 334
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Posted: Thu Feb 10, 2005 5:00 pm Post subject: |
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I didn't make a mistake though...she was scolding me for my correct use of grammar and punctuation (ironic coming from the "Grammar/Spelling Police" ...that's fairly pathetic.
I'll let it drop, but I'm not on good terms with silver and won't be making an effort to be so any time soon. |
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PhunkYMunkY Site Helper

Joined: 31 Dec 1969 Posts: 7772 Location: windmillz 'n' keyfists, yo'
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Posted: Thu Feb 10, 2005 5:01 pm Post subject: |
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No-one who has been here longer than alot of us will start fights with other newer members for no reason.. I mean where did you get that from? When members be themselves and get stick they yusually are doing something wrong. Off-topicness, spamming, single-word replies, really bad typing.. all these are frustrating therefore have rules against them (okay not the typing one but damn you won't last long typing text message style..)
Every member who thinks Silver is a bully has less than 100 posts.. and even so.. So what if she even IS a bully.. She has been around more than any of us! Take heed of her warnings.. if you follow her critisicm then you may become a valued member of this society!! Suck it up, stop acting like a damned retard and try contributing to a useful thread in a sensible [regarding the rules] way!! |
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Fayore Moderator

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Posted: Thu Feb 10, 2005 5:06 pm Post subject: |
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[quote="Elbreth (Elbreth Fjelltrone)"] I didn't make a mistake though...she was scolding me for my correct use of grammar and punctuation (ironic coming from the "Grammar/Spelling Police" ...that's fairly pathetic.
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Just so you know, that was just a label given to her by the mods. She didn't ask to be the "grammar/spelling police", and even with the title it's not like she even makes an effort up to that title except for when things get really bad, like IM speech. _________________ [url=http://vdexproject.net/user.php?user=15636][img]http://vdexproject.net/p/15636/trainer.png[/img]
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Dogss Would like fries with that

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Posted: Thu Feb 10, 2005 5:06 pm Post subject: |
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[quote]Also, just because one person is "hostile" to you doesn't mean you have to be hostile back to them. If someone starts yelling at me, I don't yell back. It's immature to complain about such petty things all the time.
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Maybe...Maybe so...But should the site helpers get away with it? It's pretty easy to attack someone knowing they're to sheepish to attack back.....it's like...a sport.
I'm not one to never drop a subjuct, but when someone decides to tell me to "STFU" I tend to want to defend myself, rather than let people walk all over me. _________________ Mohawks are beautiful sculptures |
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PhunkYMunkY Site Helper

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Posted: Thu Feb 10, 2005 5:08 pm Post subject: |
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[quote="Dogss (Dogss)"] I'm not one to never drop a subjuct, but when someone decides to tell me to "STFU" I tend to want to defend myself, rather than let people walk all over me. [/quote]
Damn straight. Of course syou should defend yourself. Only if you're in the right, however.
If you've done bad, be prepared to be bawled at by many people. There's no way around it.. Make a mistake, pay the consequences. That's the harshness of forums and that's the harshness of life. Sit down and deal with it. |
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silver_dreams Elder Than Dirt

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Posted: Thu Feb 10, 2005 5:09 pm Post subject: |
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[quote="Elbreth (Elbreth Fjelltrone)"]
I'll let it drop, but I'm not on good terms with silver and won't be making an effort to be so any time soon. [/quote]
if that's your attitude ,then so be it, bitch. you'll be knocked off your high horse soon enough.
now let me get this straight; i do not just automatically hate people. if you show yourself to be fairly agreeable and sensible, follow the rules pretty well, i won't bug you. don't try and start s**t and we'll be fine.
but then there are people who decide that they own the world just for being alive, and decide to challenge any bit of authority/attack any older members because they apparently (from what i've concluded) think that doing so will make them somehow more popular or 'above' everyone else.
Dead fuckin' wrong.
see, in your case, i wouldn't have bugged you if it weren't for the fact that you have this f**king haughty attitude; youve got this air like 'i'm educated and a genius and all of you are my pathetic underlings'.
i just plain don't like people like that. i'm allowed to have an opinion, you know.
and btw, my custom name isn't because i go around doing nothing but correcting spelling and grammer. someone suggested it, and it got set as my custom name. so what if it doesn't apply at all time? whoever suggested it and the mod that set it to that must have thought so. |
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Fayore Moderator

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Posted: Thu Feb 10, 2005 5:13 pm Post subject: |
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[quote="Dogss (Dogss)"] Maybe...Maybe so...But should the site helpers get away with it? It's pretty easy to attack someone knowing they're to sheepish to attack back.....it's like...a sport.
I'm not one to never drop a subjuct, but when someone decides to tell me to "STFU" I tend to want to defend myself, rather than let people walk all over me. [/quote]
I haven't met any site helpers who've attacked anyone. -.o; Anyway, they [b]don't[/b] "attack" because they know the person's too "sheepish" to fight back. It's not really attacking, it's just a simple reminder. In fact, since some people tend to drag the arguement on by responding rudely and not adhering to the rules, that's why some people need to be more forceful than they need to be.
"Walk all over you"?
No. People do not "walk all over you" unless you let them. Just because you choose to drop a subject and do what they ask of you doesn't mean you're letting them walk all over you. It's called being amiable. If you feel you'd rather defend yourself, then I attribute it to your personality. However, even if you believe your cause is just doesn't mean you have to fight. If you believe that dropping a subject is letting someone walk all over you, then you need to think a little more about what you're doing, because that's not true. -.o;
...Please note that "belief" is not equal to "fact". -.-; _________________ [url=http://vdexproject.net/user.php?user=15636][img]http://vdexproject.net/p/15636/trainer.png[/img]
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Elbreth Still very bored

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Posted: Thu Feb 10, 2005 5:16 pm Post subject: |
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[quote="silver_dreams (silver)"]
if that's your attitude ,then so be it, bitch. you'll be knocked off your high horse soon enough.
now let me get this straight; i do not just automatically hate people. if you show yourself to be fairly agreeable and sensible, follow the rules pretty well, i won't bug you. don't try and start s**t and we'll be fine.
but then there are people who decide that they own the world just for being alive, and decide to challenge any bit of authority/attack any older members because they apparently (from what i've concluded) think that doing so will make them somehow more popular or 'above' everyone else.
Dead fuckin' wrong.
see, in your case, i wouldn't have bugged you if it weren't for the fact that you have this f**king haughty attitude; youve got this air like 'i'm educated and a genius and all of you are my pathetic underlings'.
i just plain don't like people like that. i'm allowed to have an opinion, you know. [/quote]
Ah, the ramblings of an ill-informed aggressor...where have I ever stated that I am superior to anyone or anything? Never. I'm not. You simply resent the fact that I can type in affluent English. That's fairly hypocritical considering how heavily you would come down on a younger member for their idiot speak.
"if that's your attitude ,then so be it, bitch. you'll be knocked off your high horse soon enough."
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The ominous words of a woman scorned. Feel free to attempt to knock me off my non-existant horse. Your petty vendeta will get you nowhere I'm afraid. |
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silver_dreams Elder Than Dirt

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Posted: Thu Feb 10, 2005 5:17 pm Post subject: |
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whatever, Elbreth. you don't have enough expirience here to say anything, and you DEFINITELY don't know me.
so why don't you just f**k off, and we all attempt to get back on whatever topic this started about? |
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PhunkYMunkY Site Helper

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Posted: Thu Feb 10, 2005 5:19 pm Post subject: |
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I agree, Silver.. n00bs are amounting by the plentyful.. they need a good pissing on.
Back to topic- I loved school but I didn't know it.. I resent the days I didn't pay attention AND have fun instead, of course, of just having fun.. |
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Elbreth Still very bored

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Posted: Thu Feb 10, 2005 5:19 pm Post subject: |
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[quote="silver_dreams (silver)"] whatever, Elbreth. you don't have enough expirience here to say anything, and you DEFINITELY don't know me.
so why don't you just f**k off, and we all attempt to get back on whatever topic this started about? [/quote]
I've had enough experience with foruming to know the tired out stereotypical internet bully. |
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Dogss Would like fries with that

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Posted: Thu Feb 10, 2005 5:22 pm Post subject: |
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[quote] whatever, Elbreth. you don't have enough expirience here to say anything, and you DEFINITELY don't know me.[/quote]
Since when do you need a high post count to say anything? _________________ Mohawks are beautiful sculptures |
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silver_dreams Elder Than Dirt

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Posted: Thu Feb 10, 2005 5:23 pm Post subject: |
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[quote="Dogss (Dogss)"] [quote] whatever, Elbreth. you don't have enough expirience here to say anything, and you DEFINITELY don't know me.[/quote]
Since when do you need a high post count to say anything? [/quote]
it's called [i]expirience[/i], hun |
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PhunkYMunkY Site Helper

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Posted: Thu Feb 10, 2005 5:26 pm Post subject: |
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[quote="Elbreth (Elbreth Fjelltrone)"] I've had enough experience with foruming to know the tired out stereotypical internet bully. [/quote]
This, by no means, gives you the right to go around causing a raucus in a place which you know nothing about.
It's like running through a Buddhist community offering to convert people to Christianity.. You just don't do it unless you want to be circumsized over and over and over and over..
(Wasn't the best metaphory thing but you get my point.)
Point is; Don't break tradition if you don't know what the traditions are. Jesus, kids.. you're seriously beginning to annoy me. What's this unholy crusade you are attempting to partake in? What will you gain? What, exactly, IS the point you're trying to make?!
YOU DON'T KNOW!
Edit: Btw all this questioning of post counts and experience makes you look like "retards trying to f**k a doorknob" |
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Dogss Would like fries with that

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Posted: Thu Feb 10, 2005 5:33 pm Post subject: |
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[quote] it's called [i]expirience,[/i] hun [/quote]
Look, I respect you Silver, I really do, It's amazing that you have ::scrolls down::...a s**t load of posts... But when you disscuss something you shouldn't let your post count get to your head. It doesen't matter if you have six thousand posts, or only six, everyone's entitled to their say.
I follow the rules to the letter, and others do too, but a lot of times we're still attacked when we least expect it.
[quote] "retards trying to f**k a doorknob" [/quote]
Oh, you're a [i]scream.[/i] _________________ Mohawks are beautiful sculptures |
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Elbreth Still very bored

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Posted: Thu Feb 10, 2005 5:34 pm Post subject: |
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A place I know nothing about?
Funnily enough, the vast majority of forums are the same - not exactly the same people, but their personalities can be filed away similarly, and so yes, I would say I know enough about this place, coupled with my reading of previous posts, to make assumptions.
The only point I am making is that "silver" [i]is[/i] a bully, and I felt it should be brought to attention, rather than ignored. Were it a member with a lower post count, people would be much quicker to judge. Best example I can give of that being true is myself...I'm being judged because I can type coherently and dislike this internet persona tough guy routine. |
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silver_dreams Elder Than Dirt

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Posted: Thu Feb 10, 2005 5:37 pm Post subject: |
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[quote="Elbreth (Elbreth Fjelltrone)"]
The only point I am making is that "silver" [i]is[/i] a bully, and I felt it should be brought to attention, rather than ignored. [/quote]
dude. you don't even f**king know me.
and this is the attitude that prevents anything positive, jackass.
face it; NO AMOUNT OF COMPLAINING ABOUT ME IS GOING TO CHANGE THINGS.
now i suggest we all get back on topic before we get suspended for spamming or something.
(aka shut the f**k up about me and get on with life.) |
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Fayore Moderator

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Posted: Thu Feb 10, 2005 5:38 pm Post subject: |
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[quote="Elbreth (Elbreth Fjelltrone)"]
Ah, the ramblings of an ill-informed aggressor...where have I ever stated that I am superior to anyone or anything? Never. I'm not. You simply resent the fact that I can type in affluent English. That's fairly hypocritical considering how heavily you would come down on a younger member for their idiot speak.
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You're doing through the way you speak to other members of the forum, whether unconsciously or not.
For example, you just [i]assumed[/i] that Silver was angry at your "affluent English". Assumption stems from the feeling of superiority; most people don't do it unless they feel that they're in the greater right. You believe that you're greater than Silver, and that's why you can assume such a thing, otherwise you wouldnn't have said such a thing. Which, by the way, you're wrong. I know Silver better than you do, and she doesn't operate like that. Please note that again, whether this is conscious or not is of no consequence; it doesn't change what you're saying and how people perceive it.
By the way, Silver just tried to stop this argument by having you drop it, yet you feel the need to continue attacking her. Having fun being a troll? Trollery isn't limited to just bad typing, you know.
People need to learn a bit of humility nowadays, I see. -.o;
[quote]I'm being judged because I can type coherently[/quote] How can you say this? I don't see the proof anywhere, and it's of little consequence anyway, because you're wrong. Silver's mad at you because you don't seem to understand that she (and probably many other people) just wants you to stop arguing. Whether you can type or not doesn't matter - you're missing the big picture because you're looking at the inconsequential "little" things. _________________ [url=http://vdexproject.net/user.php?user=15636][img]http://vdexproject.net/p/15636/trainer.png[/img]
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