Crying

SilentSoul92 · Posted: Fri Mar 18, 2005 10:15 pm Post subject:

I found out this really particular thing last night. While I was readin a book, I just suddenly started crying. Not sobbing, boo hoo crying, just like, I had tears falling, I didn't even notice either, which was wierd. What's weirder, it the fact that the part I was reading wasn't sad at all, instead it was violence with humor. O.o so odd, it wasn't until later, that I realized that part was like a replay of a certain even in my life, that was pretty sad and unerving. My friend said that happened to her once too. WTF?

So, I want you all to put you head together and think, is it possible that our heart takes in a certain time, or rememberence, and converts it into emotions, such as sorrow, BEFORE our mind notices? I once got really mad for no reason either while playing a game, turns out the part was a carbon copy of a fight I got into...O.o

PhunkYMunkY · Posted: Fri Mar 18, 2005 10:22 pm Post subject:

I don't think I understood most of that thread Smile

SilentSoul92 · Posted: Fri Mar 18, 2005 10:29 pm Post subject:

oh boy, which parts did'nt you really get? I know it's sort of confusing, I guess what I'm trying to say is, I was reading this book and I started crying for no reason. It wasn't even a sad part, did that ever happen to you guys? That's the abstractly short version.

Raymei · Posted: Fri Mar 18, 2005 11:46 pm Post subject:

uh..sounds like your "eyes are watering" o.o allergies maybe?

Crying is a full-body emotional thing. Even if you don't make another other sounds, you'd feel it in your chest/throat if you were "sad" enough to cry.

But just "realizing" your eyes are dripping and then thinking back to "hm...come to think of it...I *did* have a pretty bad day" doesn't quite....sound like it.

But to answer the initial topic question...Yes o.o usually when I have a series of stressful events/days/etc I'll be walking home or laying in bed or something.
Usually when I feel "safe", the emotional dam will burst T.T;; not one of my prouder moments but definitely a healty one...

cherry-chi-hiwatari · Forum Stalker Joined: 23 Jan 2005 Posts: 1143

i do start crying for no reason quite often , but only when im alone , if theres anyone near me i will most likley bite their head off then brake down and start crying .

SilentSoul92 · Posted: Sun Mar 20, 2005 2:09 pm Post subject:

well, what i also was trying to say was, what if like you start crying because say, there's something about the story, or show, or whatever that's making you cry, it's just that, you don't realize why you were crying until AFTER you're done or start to cry. It's confusing to explain.

SilentSoul92 · Posted: Sun Mar 20, 2005 2:29 pm Post subject:

yeah, something like that. When you start crying, but you have no reason why. Usually it's because your reading or watching something. I guess, it's if you start cryinb but you don't know why. Not because you're eyes are tired or infected, I mean like, that really sad feeling, knot in your throat crying.

eclipsedmoongoddess482 · Elder In Training Joined: 31 Dec 1969 Posts: 3703

I've cried for small reasons that shouldn't really need tears. Like on Friday I had a feeling my friends were mad at me and they wouldn't tell me. Instead of getting really mad (which I woud think is the most likely reaction) I ran into the bathroom stall and cried my eyes out for like twenty minutes. Surprised

Its not my proudest moment and I still don't know why the fact that my friends wouldn't say why they were mad at me made me cry. But I felt a little better after I did cry. Like a lot of the butterflies in my tummy had gone away.

Crying is very healthy though. I don't do it often but when I do its always for more reasons than what might be bothering me at the moment. I once began to cry because of the ending to this book but it really just was the opening to me mourning the death of my great grandma which then caused me to cry because I was so scared of going to Hell when I die.

Human emotions are very complex. I don't think we'll ever truely grasp the reasons why we may feel about some events or react to things the way we do. We just accept them I guess. . . . .

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Talin · Has No Life Joined: 15 Aug 2004 Posts: 498

I have depression and I cry for no reason. I can just be sitting there and I start crying, and theres nothing sad or anything.

DarkLight · Member Joined: 25 Nov 2004 Posts: 88

hmmm... I don't really cry anymore... but I used to and yes that has happened to me... I was... 6... I think...

SilentSoul92 · Posted: Sun Mar 20, 2005 7:44 pm Post subject:

yeah, emotions are funny. I think our heart, takes in an event, and changes it into an emotion, and we don't even notice that until we start crying. I'll be crying for like a minute before my mind finallykicks in and tells me why I'm crying. I guess we'll never really understand why emotions are there.

Riyo · Posted: Sun Mar 20, 2005 9:47 pm Post subject:

I never do that.... :huh: So I have no idea what you are talking about....Except, my friend cries when she uses the bathroom...Not sobbing, the tears just roll out of her eyes and she sniffles... WTF?

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MemoriesOfYuna · Member Joined: 05 Mar 2005 Posts: 58

i don't cry i'll slap u...yeah for kno reason just bc ur in front of me and i'm like bored...

SilentSoul92 · Posted: Mon Mar 21, 2005 5:49 pm Post subject:

that has anger management written all over it Samantha