How Do You Stop Loving Someone?

unfocused · Moderator Joined: 17 Jul 2004 Posts: 6983 Location: Texas

how is it done? forcefully done I mean, not letting the love fade over time.
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MedalMask · Posted: Thu Aug 18, 2005 11:42 am Post subject:

That you need some space, with out the person in it. That's a full sentence, remember that.
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layzcarter · I used to work here Joined: 31 Dec 1969 Posts: 3988

If you really love a person I don't think it's possible to just stop loving them one day. It all happens over a long period of time, sometimes ya just don't notice it. And if one day you just wake up after being totally happy and think.. wow I don't love this person, then you never did in the first place. If there was ever love there, then you would be willing to at least attempt to work things out.
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Hawk4444 · Posted: Thu Aug 18, 2005 5:31 pm Post subject:

hmmm, this is true you have to give it time. but really you can't erase all love for someone...i know the two chicks i was cheated on by. i still love them to some degree...i can't help it....besides your asking a dude who fell in love with a cartoon character.... . . . .

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celestina67 · Would like fries with that Joined: 26 Jun 2005 Posts: 811

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I suggest spending some time away from that person. like,a year or two.

unfocused · Moderator Joined: 17 Jul 2004 Posts: 6983 Location: Texas

I have loved this girl once. True love, maybe, i dont know. But one day I [i]did[/i] just woke up and thought of her and had this feeling of hate for her. But there was a reason to be mad at her. But it was so sudden, it was crazy. I just hated her so much and didn't even want to see her. It was weird. I dont hate or love her now. Well, i kind of don't like her, because she's a bad person and sucks, in the bad way.

So I think Samantha was right.
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PhunkYMunkY · Posted: Mon Aug 29, 2005 1:15 am Post subject:

It's like Harry Potter :(

Harry wanted to kill Dumblydore :(

..YOUR BEING POSESD

unfocused · Moderator Joined: 17 Jul 2004 Posts: 6983 Location: Texas

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Powtaz · Oldbie Joined: 31 Dec 1969 Posts: 2141

[quote="unfocused (Kane)"] how is it done? forcefully done I mean, not letting the love fade over time. [/quote]
u realise that they were having sexual relations with ur best friend, and his pet cat.

even if it didnt happen, which it did! just tell urself this many times, until u realise that u shall become the master of ur solo universe.

unfocused · Moderator Joined: 17 Jul 2004 Posts: 6983 Location: Texas

tried it, didnt work Sad

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Powtaz · Oldbie Joined: 31 Dec 1969 Posts: 2141

try harder! Grr!

Sephir0th666777 · Posted: Mon Aug 29, 2005 11:48 am Post subject:

[quote="Powtaz (Powtaz)"] [quote="unfocused (Kane)"] how is it done? forcefully done I mean, not letting the love fade over time. [/quote]
u realise that they were having sexual relations with ur best friend, and his pet cat.

even if it didnt happen, which it did! just tell urself this many times, until u realise that u shall become the master of ur solo universe. [/quote]
I think I just laughed myself to death Laughing

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Powtaz · Oldbie Joined: 31 Dec 1969 Posts: 2141

then how are u typyng?

zombies!

Sephir0th666777 · Posted: Mon Aug 29, 2005 12:15 pm Post subject:

No, my ands just keep hitting the key board in a random manner, coincidently typing what I'm thinking as my life goes through its final spasms Sad

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Dogss · Would like fries with that Joined: 05 Jul 2004 Posts: 807

I dont imagin hateing ther person is the answer. Sometimes you really like the person but realize you cannot go any further..you really have to choice but to Fall out...either that or go mad.

I dont want to Hate Roberts because I think he's a cool person and we have lots to talk about, But I know I musn't love him any longer, he is out of reach...but still it may be hard.

So I dont think falling out of love...in that sort of case would be swift, specially since I dont hate him at the least.

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unfocused · Moderator Joined: 17 Jul 2004 Posts: 6983 Location: Texas

stop loving him and love me then

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