Boy Troubles

Chi_02 · Newb Joined: 10 Mar 2004 Posts: 11

Ive been hanging out with this kid, adam, alot. we've kissed a few times- no tongue. we're having a lot of fun but every time we kiss, it lasts a little longer and seems to be edging toward eventual "french kissing", but ive only frenched one guy before, and it was gross!! it was both of our firsts, and i know adam is prolly better, but im nervous. Im afraid he'll stop liking me cuz im er, lacking in experience, even though im almost sure he wont...i still worry a little because hes 2 years older. i know its stupid, but i want to tell him why im afraid before he gives up, but i dont know how to say it (or type it) without sounding overly possesive of him or just plain wierd. Sad

anyone got an idea? :huh:

slimfast · Very bored Joined: 08 Jun 2004 Posts: 169

wow...ive never kissed anyone before!!! but i think you should tell him, if he doesnt like you because of in-experiance then thats his fault because u seem pretty kool to me. though i doubt that he'll dislike you if youve been friends 4 awhile &...why dont you just ask him out? it may be unconfortable at frist but if you stop thinking about the age difference & all that you should be fine go 4 it grl!!! Laughing

CheshireGoddess · Forum Stalker Joined: 31 Dec 1969 Posts: 1063

ok first off i think you should put this thread into the Crush section not make ur whole new thread so i would advice taking it down sooner or later.

But i will still give you some advice because this can be an easy problem to fix Wink

Ok so first how old are you dear? Because that matters alot, i assume you are young like around 12 or 13? if so hun you shouldn't even been kissing at this age but that is just my opinion i mean im 14 going on 15. but yes anyways if u say he is older than he should understand that you don't want to go that far as to frenching especially if you think its "gross" I say take it slow and explain that to him, do it in person that helps. Just tell him that you are younger than him so its alot more new and kind of scary for you. if he likes u as much as u says he does then he will have no problem with slowing it down ^_^
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slimfast · Very bored Joined: 08 Jun 2004 Posts: 169

oh & if you dont like frenching then dont do it! its that simple really just tell the guy you dont wanna french & he would probably respect that & wont do it.

Chi_02 · Newb Joined: 10 Mar 2004 Posts: 11

thanks you guys!!

actually, cg, im 15. and yeah, i know...its wierd that ive only frenched one guy. lol but thats ok.
sorry, i didnt know there was a crush section, im kinda computer retarded (sorry if that choice of language is offending, but its the best way to put it.)

Laughing

thanks a bunch!!

Chi_02 · Newb Joined: 10 Mar 2004 Posts: 11

right, so how do i take this one down?? i would do it willingly if i knew how....

CheshireGoddess · Forum Stalker Joined: 31 Dec 1969 Posts: 1063

Not really sure how you can ask raymei or fallen angel they could help you out.

And no no no no don't think its weird or apologize that ur not physically like out there yet so to speak WTF?

Don't feel like u have to rush at all i would say do what u want when YOU feel like him but i defiantly advise that u talk to him about it and if you are going to go further or even kiss more i would do what Britt said, talk about going out sense its never fun having a "friend with benifits" trust me i know it will only hurt you or get u attached when the other person isn't lol Rolling eyes

And yes i can relate with you i am 14 with a 16 year old boyfriend so if u are 15 and he is 17 he should be mature enought to understand trust me on this ^_^
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slimfast · Very bored Joined: 08 Jun 2004 Posts: 169

yea!!!!!! i think that you guys 'el make a great couple!!! Very Happy

hav fun with it! you only get to live once...unless ur reincarnated but the likes of that happening is very slim.. WTF?

fallenangel · Posted: Thu Jul 22, 2004 9:07 pm Post subject:

Ah, just go ahead n' leave it as its own topic. It's gotten this far.

Telling him you want to slow down is actually a very good way to judge character. If he's into [i]you[/i], he should respect that. If he just wants to get some action, you'll know and can ditch his stupid arse. Smile

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CheshireGoddess · Forum Stalker Joined: 31 Dec 1969 Posts: 1063

nicely put fallen Wink

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